Collect life lessons as you pass go
| By Finlo Rohrer BBC News Magazine |
In the era of the high-def DVD and the ubiquitous game console, the board games unwrapped around the world on Christmas Day are a refreshing throwback. But is it all just a bit of fun or can we learn any valuable lessons from the roll of a dice?
Games are not good. Or at least that's what many people would have you believe. In English idiom, the exhortation to "stop playing games" implies manipulation, prevarication, even procrastination.
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But this is a time of year when games are ascendant. Many will have played a board game over the festive period.
Monopoly is perhaps the quintessential family board game. There can't be too many people in the Western world who are completely unaware of the existence of the game.
It will have been yanked out of millions of dark cupboards over Christmas, dusted off and played. And played. And played. And played some more.
The most obvious life lesson in Monopoly is about patience. Games can last hours. Interminable circuits of the board go on as each player looks for the right roll of the dice to finally buy Bond Street and start getting some houses. It ebbs and flows as fines are paid and then recovered.
Gruelling marathons
For the parent playing Monopoly, the appeal might lie in the ability of Monopoly to swallow a whole day, to neutralise a usually fractious but now ultra competitive child.
In fact this whole vision of Monopoly as the recreational equivalent of spending the night on a mountain looking for enlightenment is a fallacy. Monopoly should really only take about an hour and a half, says retired fireman and tournament player Alan Farrell.
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"The main rule that tends to get ignored is the auction. If you land on a property and don't want it, it goes to auction. That's what tends to slow things down and put a lot of people off. If you don't get houses built it will go on forever."
Of course, developing steely patience in children (and adults) is a quality with useful application in both academe and the workplace, whether it's for trawls through textbooks, three hour exams or tackling voluminous reports.
But patience is a side effect of Monopoly, and indeed of any board game. The real raison d'etre is bringing the family together. Where conversation may stutter and fail, the game marches on triumphantly forcing social interaction.
It might be bickering over whether dad's all-conquering laying down of the word "muzhiks" is allowed in Scrabble or fighting for the right to ask all the questions in Trivial Pursuits, but it all still counts as quality family time.
Carrot and stick
It is the same with Pictionary, Ludo, Cluedo, Risk, or anything else.
The carrot is a chance for the competitive children and teenagers to crush the older opposition. The stick is that some form of conversation is necessary for the game to progress.
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Many games, like Monopoly, take this social interaction to new heights by placing a premium on negotiation. In Monopoly, deals to waive interest, exchange property and form strategic alliances are common in multiplayer games.
Even at tournament level, Mr Farrell says, these skills are important. "It requires a little bit of negotiating the right deal, unless you are very lucky."
But the king of negotiating games might well be Diplomacy. Perhaps not as well known as its less intense rival Risk, Diplomacy pits seven players against each as nation states fighting over a map of Europe as it was prior to World War I.
While the military element of the game is simple enough, its central attraction lies in the negotiations, alliances, betrayals, poker faces and backstabbing that follow. No player can win - or even hope to survive - without engaging with others and learning to smell false promises.
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"The moves side of the game is more or less like checkers or chess," says inventor Allan B Calhamer. "What's different is the negotiation. Nobody is required to tell the truth. It should make you more careful and more alert."
Unlike many games, where the key is simply to play the best moves, without the need to second guess the opponent, Diplomacy requires the playing of the opponent as much as the game. As a result it has found favour outside the home as an educational tool.
"There is a saying in chess 'respond to his capabilities, not his intentions' but in Diplomacy his intentions may make a lot of difference," says Mr Calhamer.
"I've been told that it has been played in the Pentagon and the State Department."
Of course, it's possible to over-egg the idea that life's battles are mirrored in board games, says Mr Calhamer. You might compare your office politics to Monopoly or Diplomacy, but a lid should be kept on that comparison.
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"When you are at the office you are not manning the Maginot Line. You are not worried about Germany invading Belgium by surprise," he says.
And away from hard-to-quantify skills like negotiation and patience, concrete improvements have been claimed by some games.
There is a long history of studies claiming a link between playing chess and improved memory, analytical skills and other academic abilities in children.
But perhaps we should prefer to laud the "soft" skills that games teach us. How to win and lose with grace, how to play nicely with our families, and how to dissemble, cajole, and gull our way to victory.
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